Why I Married A White Woman part 2

As time went on I always kept black women in my options. Now I could always go to the club and talk to a black woman or get a dancer too. I would never try to have a relationship with a woman that I met at the club maybe that's why I could get them so easy at the club because I didn't care about any them. Always felt like if I dated a woman that I met at the club by the end of the relationship I would be paying child support selling crack in riding in a hoopty.

 Now for example the type of black woman that I would have been into( you know when you go to the bank and you ask to speak to someone and the woman behind the desk is a black woman ) that was the kind of black women I was interested in. she's well spoken, classy and sweet like candy as a matter of fact that's what kind of women I was interested in anyway Black or white .

I never was interested in white women that tried to be from the hood or tried to act ghetto ,or tried to live their lives in the shadow of a hood rat . It's funny you can tell by the looks of some white women if they date black men are not those were not my kind of women. I needed a woman that was presentable that was well spoken. Real talk nobody really wants to bring home a stripper to meet their mom

Another one of my standard my woman had to bring home the bacon yes she had to work I could not put up with the woman that had no income but her government check & child support. just sitting at home all day, talking about where you been & who you done been with . For example say for instance if we had kids or something what if I died or got life in jail. I don't know. I wanted my wife to be able to carry the household .I wanted a woman that wanted a man, & not depended on a man . I guess you call that independent yes .I needed a independent woman

I always thought I would be single forever Living a bachelor's lifestyle. sleeping around and partying all weekend . Then out of nowhere a romantic night lasted a year and a half & left me with a serious decision to make. Am I going to keep this lifestyle of half ass relationships and not settling down until a black woman would come to her senses and see me for the nice kind hearted guy that I am. On the other hand I said to myself ,Dee you have a beautiful young woman in front of you and she loved you for better or for worse the first night we met . She fit's all your standards she doesn't have any kids not that that would have been a problem. She wants things out of life just like you do and she's going places just like you said you were too . Somewhere in the Bible it says don't get married unless you have to I well I felt like this was a situation where I did not have much of a choice . and that's why I married a white woman.